No puedes hacer que ellos dejen de hacer esas cosas.
De hecho, entre más empujes en contra de las cosas que ellos están haciendo, ellos más hacen esas cosas, debido a que acvtivas dentro de ti mismo una vibración que literálmente les da a ellos la corriente con la cual hacer esas cosas.
Si deseas que algo se marche, debes sacar tu atención de ello.

Apreciando ANDO

From the opening at Tarrytown, NY Oct. 9, 2004:

Physical humans come to a place where they often think that creating is about looking at the possibilities — good and bad, wanted and unwanted — and then choosing the wanted but defeating the unwanted. Humans so often get fixated on their awareness of what they don’t want and what they don’t like and what they don’t want to live, about injustices or unfairnesses, about inappropriate things, and then somehow forget everything that they have ever known about Law of Attraction and about the true creative process as they set out to defeat unwanted things.
And we want to remind you that you cannot defeat something unwanted because, in your attention to what you are attempting to defeat, you are activating the very Vibration within you that you don’t want any part of. And, in your effort to push against the unwanted, instead of making it go away you make it come closer to you and fluff up in bigger fashion and show itself to you more and present itself as an obstacle in your life even more.
We know how you reach that place. It is because contrast evokes from you awareness and conclusion and preference. And we also know that when you know what you do want, it is often born out of what you don’t want. But we want to remind you that once you have defined what it is that you prefer, no matter what it is, whether it’s your own personal bodily conditions, whether it’s your own personal relationships, whether it’s something that you would appreciate or desire on a global level — once you have identified the preference that you define as more pleasing to you, you must give your undivided attention to that preference and line up with it because there is no right or wrong that is definable by the world or by the greater context of Mass Consciousness that is viewing it. There is no right or wrong that you will all agree — ever! You will never get everyone to agree with you. You will never even get 80% of you to agree.
And so, when you decide that Well-Being hinges upon convincing large bodies of others that you are right and they are wrong when all of them are trying to do the same thing, you have a stand-off that brings you to your knees. When you put yourself in a place where your happiness in this moment depends upon your being able to effectively convince large numbers of others, you disempower yourself.
And, if we were standing in your physical shoes, we would not go about it in that way. We would acknowledge that we are an extension of Source Energy and that Source Energy is flowing to us and through us at all times. And that the variety that we are living helps us to personally define our preference and then we would turn our attention to that which we have discovered and decided that we prefer and we would speak only of that. We would become [in] such Vibrational alignment with that which we prefer that we would not introduce into our personal Vibration contradictory Energy.
And when you find yourself in a place where you are not contradicting your own Energy with statements or thoughts of pushing against unwanted, now you are purely aligned with that which is Source. And as you are Purely aligned with that which is Source and purely aligned with the idea of your desire, now you are powerfully influential. And now Law of Attraction is responding to the Vibrational signal, that Pure signal, that consistent signal, that steady signal that is emanating from you.
When you say, “I want this,” you offer a signal about it which Law of Attraction begins to match. When you say, “I don’t want this,” you offer a signal which Law of Attraction begins to match. So, when you say, “These things I like, but these things I don’t like,” you’re sending out mixed signals. When you say, “I want something but I do not have it;” when you say, “I need it to be this way, but it’s this way,” you are offering signals not only about what you want, but about what you don’t want contradicting your own Vibration putting yourself in a state of resistance. Law of Attraction is answering everything that you’re offering and then your life is sort of a muddle. And then you say, “My life is a muddle because those people are doing things that I don’t want them to do.”
And we say, “You can’t make them stop doing those things. In fact, the harder you push against the things they’re doing, the more they do those things, because you activate within yourself a Vibration that literally gives them the current with which to do those things.“
If you want something to go away, you must withdraw your attention from it and this is opposite of what most humans understand. Most humans really believe that if they can gather up their forces and push their forces against something unwanted, that they defeat what is not wanted. And they are so shortsighted in their ability to see. It doesn’t go away. It gets bigger and squirts out in another place and squirts out in another place and squirts out in another place and squirts out in another place.
So, if you decide that your happiness depends on someone else coming into agreement with you, you’ve got a long, hard task ahead of you. But, if you discover that your agreement — the only agreement that is needed — is the Vibrational agreement within you and then you work to align your own Energies, now you are Vibrationally p\Pure. And by that we mean you’re sending a signal about what you want, not a signal about what you don’t want.